Never giving up…
One of the biggest and most important things that my mum instilled in me, was never to give up.
It’s stood me in good stead over the years, even when the going has been tough and I’ve questioned whether I could do what I started out to do.
Long before J even entered our lives, I knew that I wanted a child; I had too much love to give for it to not be invested in a little person who could be nurtured and guided. But life has a way of throwing you curve balls and he took at least three years to arrive.
During that time there was plenty of despair, tears and sadness, but above all else an unswerving belief that one day that little person would arrive. And I never gave up even when I was told it just wasn’t possible. Even when against the odds and a severe case of tokophobia later, we then went through a further week of him being in intensive care.
Sometimes deep down, you just know. And you don’t know how you do, but it’s as if it’s your destiny pointing you in the right direction.
Sometimes though it’s easy to ignore the path that is in front of you – and what you originally think you want isn’t where you end up.
But life has a funny way of working out in the end, and whilst it’s hard to see where we’ll be in a few years, let’s celebrate each and every moment of the here and now.
What is the best piece of advice that you have been given and what have you learnt from it?